What advice would you give your younger self – or your kids – about friendship?

Just today I was trying to convince my middle schooler that what other people thought of him was none of his business. He’s not buying it, but I wish somebody had at least introduced the idea to me as a kid! I’m not giving up, and I’ll explain it again when it comes up for me.
– Angela Todd, Funnermother: Let’s get fun

Your girlfriends are one of your most prized assets – do not ever take that for granted. Always be a good friend – no matter what. Make time for them – it’s THAT important. There will come a time when you need those friends, and by being a good friend always, you will know without a doubt that you have people there for you. There is no worse feeling than lonely. Be a good friend and honor your relationships so you never have to feel that.
– Lynsey Jones

I have told my son that he needs to find friends that treat him right and value him as a person. If they are always cutting him down and calling him names, then he needs to ask himself if they are really friends.
– Leah K.

Virginia Higgins Be the friend to others that you want others to be for you.
– Virginia H.

Listen to your parents. They are “mostly” right.
– Elizabeth Pyo

Be yourself. If you’re true to who you are, you’ll attract friends that understand you.
– Micki

Don’t wait for your friends to call or make plans, take the initiative. It takes effort on both sides to maintain a friendship!
– Michelle B.

Tell us: What advice would you give?